These days, you don’t have to spend time looking at X-rated video clips to really get excited over your naughty desires, because finding a hot partner willing to do those things has gotten easier than ever.
Sex work used to be something that only happened on shady street corners and brothels, but now people’s attitudes have completely shifted, and we live at a time where it’s much more accepted to meet up with a model for a few hours if you’re feeling horny.
Much of this is thanks to the internet because it has enabled us to connect in ways we never would have imagined before. Sure, it was all about email and then instant messaging with co-workers, friends and family members to start, but now it’s how we do absolutely everything, including meeting up with people for some very hot and wild adventures between the sheets.
Because these models are professionals, you can believe that you will get top-notch service from the very start, no matter what kind of kinks you want to explore.
Choosing the Right Escort
Since many escort sites are based on the typical dating apps, you’ll recognize the set-up right away, which is good. You don’t want to spend time figuring out how to navigate a website, you want to get to the good stuff.
It is easy to search by your location, which is important so you can find Los Angeles, Chicago, London or Bristol Escorts with a simple click. Of course, you can be much more specific and look for blondes who are thirty-plus and enjoy dressing up in kinky costumes and getting into roleplaying fantasies. There are certain keywords that you can select (or de-select) to make sure you are getting the most accurate results for the kind of experience you want.
Reading the model’s profile is definitely recommended because while it makes sense that you will be drawn in by the photos, the short bio they will write about themselves can say a lot about whether the two of you will get along. This is important because the more relaxed and friendly you are when you first meet, the better the bedroom experience is going to be.
Make sure that your kinks are included in her list of services and things she is willing to do because you don’t want to find out after later that she’s not into your thing. If it’s not listed, you can always double-check when you contact her to make the appointment.
Kinky Roleplaying Is Hot, Hot, Hot
While the term MILF is now over two decades old (first popularized in the 1999 teen sex comedy ‘American Pie’), it’s only in the last few years that porn has fully embraced the real taboo side of the idea of sleeping with an older woman who might have a strong relationship to you.
There are a lot of adult clips out there involving ‘my friend’s hot mom’, or ’can’t resist hot step-mom’. In a way it’s because there has been ‘regular’ porn on the internet for so long, this is like the latest boundary push that is driving everyone crazy with lust.
Historically, these ideas have been part of plays as far back as Ancient Greece, where in Oedipus Rex, the title character sleeps with a woman who turns out to be his mother. Psychologist Sigmund Freud even named the Oedipus Complex - a desire to sleep with one’s mother - after this cultural example.
Of course, when it comes to porn, you might just be more interested in seeing the thirty-year-old porn star pretending to play a mother-like figure, and that’s what’s getting you excited.
With that being the case, it’s not hard to find a sexy escort of the same age (and maybe even the same appearance), and pitching them the idea to call you ‘son’ or ‘step-son’ as you get closer to the bedroom. The acting might not be first-rate, but you’ll be surprised how only a few choice comments can really get the both of you turned on.
One of the best taboo fantasies of this kind is ‘getting caught in the act’, where you and the escort can pretend that she is alone in her bedroom playing with one of her sex toys, and you spy on her for a bit before she notices.
It can be a great way for both of you to really get into the scene, especially if you also have exhibitionist (you get excited when people watch you have sex) and voyeur (you get excited watching others do the same) fantasies.
The other big fantasy is obviously BDSM, which is a step up from what we’ve discussed so far. There can still be a roleplaying element where you both pretend to be someone else, but the focus is a lot more on the activities you do, which can involve some humiliating and painful moves and positions. This is the point of this kind of kink, as some people really get turned on when they are spanked, slapped or forced to drink water out of a dog bowl (and sometimes they’re lucky if it’s water).
Some ‘First Date’ Tips
Now, obviously, because of the arrangement meeting up with an escort is not a date, but the more you treat it as such, the better. Being charming in every situation is practically a superpower, and you can be sure she will be a lot more into you if you are smiling, are courteous and can make her laugh.
She will be putting in plenty of effort to look good, and she will certainly appreciate it if you do the same. A nice collared shirt and pressed slacks and proper shoes can go a long way. Also, be mindful to be on time. Not only should you never keep a woman waiting, but it will just eat into the time you have together in the bedroom.